?= I don't understand this activity or I just missed it.
No = Hard limit. Will not do this activity under any circumstances.
0= Soft limit. Hate or actively dislike this activity but might try it under the right circumstances
1 - 3= you don't like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you
4 - 6= you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular occasional basis
7 - 9= you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis
10= The activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible
~ = You desire this activity to be a perpetual constant and can not imagine NOT doing this activity.
Done Rating System
This describes if you have actually participated in this activity.
Fantasized Rating System
This describes how often you fantasize about a particular activity. This is independent of whether or not you actually would do such a thing but rather how much is this activity on your mind.
Oral/anal play (rimming)
The submissive's mouth on the Dominants anus or another's at the Dominants direction.
Over the knee spanking
Ahhhhh brings back childhood memories when we were bad. The Dominant giving the spanking.
The Dominant bringing the submissive up to the edge of orgasm but not being allowed the submissive to climax.
The submissive having their orgasm controlled to the point of when, where, how, and how often. No matter how it is achieved.
Participating in a "scene" outdoors. Not necessarily in public view.
Having sex outside. Whether you are the Top or the bottom.Not necessarily in public view.