?= I don't understand this activity or I just missed it.
No = Hard limit. Will not do this activity under any circumstances.
0= Soft limit. Hate or actively dislike this activity but might try it under the right circumstances
1 - 3= you don't like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you
4 - 6= you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular occasional basis
7 - 9= you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis
10= The activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible
~ = You desire this activity to be a perpetual constant and can not imagine NOT doing this activity.
Done Rating System
This describes if you have actually participated in this activity.
Fantasized Rating System
This describes how often you fantasize about a particular activity. This is independent of whether or not you actually would do such a thing but rather how much is this activity on your mind.
Saran wrapping
The Dominant using saran wrap in lieu of various bondage devices - also used in varying degrees of mummification.
Scratching
The Dominant scratching or clawing at the skin with ones nails.
Sensory deprivation
The Dominant not allowing the submissive to see hear taste smell and in some manner even feel mostly used to heighten sensations afterward.
Serving as an art
The submissive serving the Dominant as a sculpture or mannequin that stays motionless. A pretty thing just to look at.
Serving as an ashtray
The submissive serving the Dominant as an ashtray. Swallowing ash and small burns from cigarettes are not uncommon.
Serving as furniture
The submissive serving the Dominant as any typical piece of furnishing. A Couch, Chair, Table, Foot stool. etc.
Serving as maid or butler
The submissive serving in a manner that one would serve a well to do family. May or may not include uniforms or bondage.
Serving as toilet (urine)
The submissive serving the Dominant as a toilet that accepts only urine . The Dominant may not be the only one to use the toilet.
Serving as toilet (feces)
The submissive serving the Dominant as a toilet that accepts both urine and fecal matter. The Dominant may not be the only one to use the toilet.
Serving as waitress/waiter
The Dominant being the customer.
Serving orally (sexual)
The submissive pleasing their Dominant using their mouth.
Serving other/doms (supervised)
The submissive serving another with the submissive's Dominant present.
Serving other/doms (unsupervised)
The submissive serving another without the submissive's Dominant present.
Sexual deprivation (short term)
The submissive not being allowed to climax for brief periods of time.
Sexual deprivation (long term)
The submissive not being allowed to climax for extended periods of time.
Sexual service
The submissive being required to sexually gratify the Dominant without regard to the submissive's pleasure.
Shaving (body hair)
The Dominant either doing or requiring the submissive shave certain areas of the body.
Shaving (head hair)
The Dominant either doing or requiring the submissive shave all or part of the hair upon the head.
Skinny-dipping
Swimming in the nude usually under cover of darkness.
Sleep deprivation
The submissive not being allowed to sleep for sometimes days.
Sleep sacks
The submissive being required to sleep virtually standing up. The "sack" holding the submissive upright.
Slutty clothing (private)
The submissive wearing slutty clothing in private for the Dominants amusement.
Slutty clothing (public)
The submissive wearing slutty clothing in public for the Dominants amusement.
Snuff fantasy play
Fantasies that usually include the death or murder of ones partner. The submissive is usually the victim.
Spanking
The submissive on the receiving end of the spanking. May or may not be given by the Dominant and not as specific as "over-the knee"
Spandex clothing
The Dominant requiring the submissive to wear extremely tight or constricting clothing.
Speech restrictions (when, what)
The Dominant restricting speech up to and including not being allowed to talk at all.
Speculums (anal)
The Dominant using this medical device on the submissive's anus.
Speculums (vaginal)
The Dominant using this medical device on the submissive.
Spitting
The submissive being spit upon by the Dominant.
Spreader bars
The submissive being required to wear a device used to hold arms or legs apart at a fixed distance.
Standing in corner
The submissive being required to stand in a corner like a misbehaved child.
Stocks
The submissive bound with an old form of public bondage where the wrists and neck where held between two formed pieces of wood.
Straight jackets
The submissive wearing a canvas jacket where the arms are buckled across ones chest and secured in back.
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
The submissive sucking and licking the toy. The Dominant may or may not be wearing it.
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
The submissive being penetrated by the toy. The Dominant may or may not be wearing it.
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
The submissive being required to wear one of these devices. Not necessarily actually using it on someone.
Strapping (full body beating)
The Dominants comprehensive flogging of nearly every portion of the submissive's body.
Suspension (upright)
The submissive being bound in such a way that they are not touching the floor. In just about any position with the head being higher than the rest of the body.
Suspension (inverted)
The submissive being bound in such a way that they are not touching the floor and(in this case upside down).
Suspension (horizontal)
The submissive being bound in such a way that they are not touching the floor and is horizontal(face up or face down).
Supplying new partners for Dom
The submissive seeking out and convincing others to have sex with their Dominant.
Swallowing semen
The submissive swallowing the Dominants semen. (Female Dominants may require swallowing of fake semen from a squirting strap-on)
Swallowing urine
Separate from golden showers.. The submissive swallowing as well.
Swallowing feces
Separate from just scat or brown showers.. The submissive swallowing as well.
The Dominant using saran wrap in lieu of various bondage devices - also used in varying degrees of mummification.
The Dominant scratching or clawing at the skin with ones nails.
The submissive serving the Dominant as any typical piece of furnishing. A Couch, Chair, Table, Foot stool. etc.
The submissive serving in a manner that one would serve a well to do family. May or may not include uniforms or bondage.
The Dominant being the customer.
The Dominant either doing or requiring the submissive shave all or part of the hair upon the head.
The submissive being required to sleep virtually standing up. The "sack" holding the submissive upright.
The Dominant using this medical device on the submissive.
The submissive being required to wear a device used to hold arms or legs apart at a fixed distance.
The submissive bound with an old form of public bondage where the wrists and neck where held between two formed pieces of wood.
The submissive wearing a canvas jacket where the arms are buckled across ones chest and secured in back.
The submissive sucking and licking the toy. The Dominant may or may not be wearing it.
The submissive being bound in such a way that they are not touching the floor and(in this case upside down).
The submissive being bound in such a way that they are not touching the floor and is horizontal(face up or face down).